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Heatwave indoor reset

When temps spike, shift to a cool, dim, 10‑minute co‑regulation that protects energy and romance.

Dim living room with fan, chilled cloths, and electrolytes.

Dim living room with fan, chilled cloths, and electrolytes.

At a glance

Duration
10 minutes
Focus
Cool the nervous system
Updated
2025-11-11
  • Summer
  • Cooling
  • Accessibility
  • Reset
  • Hydration
  • Sensory
Cool cloth on wrist pulse point.
Cool cloth on wrist pulse point.AI
Line icons for pulse, breath, slow.
Line icons for pulse, breath, slow.AI

When to use: Peak-heat days or right after sun-heavy stops to cool down fast.

Why this ritual hits

When the desert bakes, this 10-minute cool-down keeps tempers and bodies steady—cold cloths, box breathing, and bilingual affirmations so romance doesn’t melt with the sidewalk.

Setup

  • Close blinds, fan on low, lights dim. Prep cold water or electrolyte mix.
  • Place two cool washcloths or gel packs on the table.

Steps

  1. Forehead + wrists: Press cool cloths to pulse points for 60 seconds.
  2. Box breath: Inhale 4, hold 4, exhale 4, hold 4—repeat 4 times.
  3. Affirm: “Estamos seguros y tranquilos; seguimos lento.”

Pivot

  • Choose a low‑heat activity: shared playlist build, gentle stretch, or a cool shower.
  • Send a check‑in text to confirm capacity before leaving the house.

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