Ritual
Heatwave indoor reset
When temps spike, shift to a cool, dim, 10‑minute co‑regulation that protects energy and romance.

Dim living room with fan, chilled cloths, and electrolytes.
At a glance
- Duration
- 10 minutes
- Focus
- Cool the nervous system
- Updated
- 2025-11-11
- Summer
- Cooling
- Accessibility
- Reset
- Hydration
- Sensory


When to use: Peak-heat days or right after sun-heavy stops to cool down fast.
Why this ritual hits
When the desert bakes, this 10-minute cool-down keeps tempers and bodies steady—cold cloths, box breathing, and bilingual affirmations so romance doesn’t melt with the sidewalk.
Setup
- Close blinds, fan on low, lights dim. Prep cold water or electrolyte mix.
- Place two cool washcloths or gel packs on the table.
Steps
- Forehead + wrists: Press cool cloths to pulse points for 60 seconds.
- Box breath: Inhale 4, hold 4, exhale 4, hold 4—repeat 4 times.
- Affirm: “Estamos seguros y tranquilos; seguimos lento.”
Pivot
- Choose a low‑heat activity: shared playlist build, gentle stretch, or a cool shower.
- Send a check‑in text to confirm capacity before leaving the house.
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