Consent-first lens
Clarity, boundaries, and context show up before spice. We only publish scenarios that honor affirmative yeses.
Editorial charter
Editorial policy
Pitolandia stories feel grown, consent-forward, and transportive. We celebrate adult connection without crossing into explicit content, and we make boundaries as visible as the romance.
Last reviewed November 8, 2025
Refined, grown energy
We cover adult nightlife and logistics with a tone that is flirty, not explicit. Family settings appear only for planning or ambiance intel.
PG-13, bar-friendly
Expect content that is bar-friendly and spouse-safe—still fine to forward to the group chat or your partner’s friends.
Audience
Who we write for
Loops and guides center grown readers. We keep kids safe by keeping the lens adult, even when a venue happens to host families earlier in the day.
Adults only
- We do not target kids. Any Bring the Kids loops focus on logistics, not heat.
- 21+ experiences, ticketing, or pours are loudly labeled at the top of each loop.
Context-aware tone
- We remind readers when bystanders—especially families—might share the space.
- If the vibe shifts spicy, we direct readers to private, consensual environments.
Content standards
How we frame desire
We’re flirtatious, not explicit. Every line aims to keep readers informed, intrigued, and safe without crossing personal boundaries.
Default PG-13
- Suggestive is fine; no explicit sexual acts, genitals, or pornographic imagery.
- We never publish identifying bedroom details without explicit, informed consent.
Tags we rely on
- Bring the Kids – logistics intel for spaces where kids could be nearby.
- 21+ – proofing, cocktails, or venues with age gates.
- After Dark – higher heat but still legal, consensual, and classy.
Privacy & legality
- No doxxing, outing, or illegal-how-to content.
- We credit sources, disclose paid or affiliate relationships, and cite photographers.
Care statements
Respect for workers & readers
We normalize adult experience without spectacle. Sex-work coverage centers dignity, safety, and autonomy.
Sex-work affirming
- No shaming, no outing, no fetishizing someone’s livelihood.
- We do not publish solicitation posts; coverage centers on safety intel and context.
Experience = care
- Competence shows up as tenderness, not as notch-counting.
- We keep private details private unless someone clearly opts in and there’s editorial purpose.
Safety playbook
Consent, context, and law
Every loop reminds readers that the spicy part only lands when everyone involved feels safe, sober, and legally protected.
Context & bystanders
- Do not play around people who haven’t opted in—especially where families linger.
- Choose venues and hours that match the energy; plan logistics in public, save spice for private settings.
- Read the room first, mirror the space, then move only with an explicit yes.
Legal & logistics
- No drunk driving. Recommend rideshare, designated drivers, or sober routes.
- Respect local laws (Arizona open-container, venue photography rules, etc.).
- Disclose sponsors, affiliates, and comps so readers know what influenced coverage.
Trust before spice
- Each guide carries a vibe-check, aftercare cues, and consent reminders.
- Curiosity comes after mutual clarity; “sexy” means feeling safe enough to try something new.
Imagery
How we art-direct
- Mood and logistics beat exposure; tasteful > explicit.
- Use local, credited photos whenever possible. Blur or crop faces without consent.
- Sourcing ladder: official assets → CC/Unsplash of the real location → contextually relevant stock. Store everything in the repo with attribution.
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Questions or concerns? Email hola@pitolandia.com.