0:00
Peixoto baseline (15–25 min)
Order, sit, and set the tone with one clean question: “Do you want this to be chatty, quiet, or a mix?” Then do the 10-minute mini-game: each pick 3 words (color, texture, phrase) that match today’s vibe. That becomes your theme for the gallery + walk.
0:25
Vision Gallery slow-walk (20–40 min)
Each pick one piece and answer: “What does this sound like?” Keep it playful. If you’re shopping, set a light budget vibe (photos are free; buying is optional).
1:05
Public-art stroll (10–25 min)
Treat the street like a mini gallery. Do one 0.5× clip per mural (no faces if you want privacy), then swap phones for one “best angle” shot each.
1:30
Park debrief + clean close (15–30 min)
Bench time. Share your top 1–2 favorite finds (art or conversation). Confirm the exit: “Want to keep wandering, or should we end it here and text later?” Romance is clarity.
- The Creative Director — Art + design + tiny shopping, low pressure.
- Peixoto prompt: 3-word theme (color, texture, phrase).
- Gallery: each pick one piece and say what it “sounds like.”
- Mural hunt: 0.5× camera, 5-second clips per mural.
- Debrief: name your best “Pitolandia drop” idea and why it fits today.
- The Holiday Market Side‑Quest — Playful + social + tiny gifts (when the calendar hits).
- To‑go drinks, then walk downtown looking for makers.
- If it’s Third Thursday (Oct–May, 6–9 PM), set $15–$25 each to buy the other a small gift.
- Park unwrap + “one thing I learned about you” debrief.
- The Photo Walk — Content + chemistry with low talk pressure.
- Pick one theme: warm tones / neon / hands-only (no faces).
- Swap phones for one “best angle” shot each (ask first; keep it light).
- End with a bench debrief + one clean exit plan.
- Quiet + Deep — Low-stimulus, high-connection.
- Gallery first (A/C, slower pace), then one short street loop.
- Park bench: one prompt each, then a clean close.
Vision Gallery closed pivot
Don’t force it. Do a public-art walk + park debrief, or pivot to
The Gallery at CCA (free, rotating exhibitions inside Chandler Center for the Arts).
Coffee line pivot
If Peixoto is slammed, go to-go and run the vibe-check while you walk: “quiet, chatty, or mixed?” Calm beats perfect seating.
Heat / sensory overload pivot
Shorten the loop: gallery (A/C) → one shaded bench → clean exit.
Conversation dead-air pivot
Switch to a game: 3-word theme, “what does it sound like?”, or the 3×3 bingo card.
Budget squeeze pivot
Flip to “photo-only” mode. The date is the taste + attention, not the purchases.
Photos + posting
Ask before close photos and before posting (
privacy policy). If you’re doing hands-only or no-faces, say it out loud so you’re aligned.
Money
Set a spending vibe before browsing; ask before surprise gifts so it doesn’t feel like pressure.
Touch in public
Downtown is PG‑13 territory. Ask before hand-holding, waist touch, or selfies.
Clean exit language
“This was really nice. Want to end here and text later, or keep wandering?” Ambiguity kills romance.
- A mural with a face
- A dog in a sweater
- A handmade ornament (seasonal)
- A piece of art you both love
- A song you Shazam
- Someone wearing boots
- A neon sign photo
- A coffee order you’ve never tried
- A vendor who makes you laugh (event night)
💧 Water (yes, even for a coffee date)
👟 Comfortable shoes (downtown sidewalks)
🧢 Sunglasses + SPF (desert rules)
🔋 Charged phone (maps + photos + AirDrop)
💵 A spending vibe (no-buy / $20 cap / “ask before big”)