When to use: Before hosting or mixing for a loop night (or anytime you need quick specs).
Core drinks / terms / pouring basics
Bartender Cheat Sheet
Fast specs, clean technique, and bar language so you can mix confidently without guessing.

High-velocity basics, modern favorites, and craft classics.
High-velocity basics
Fast builds for a crowd
Vodka Soda
2 oz vodka / Soda water / Lime wheel
Build / highball

Gin & Tonic
2 oz gin / Tonic water / Lime wedge
Build / highball

Margarita (Classic)
2 oz tequila / 1 oz lime / 3/4 oz triple sec
Shake / rocks / optional salt rim

Moscow Mule
2 oz vodka / 1/2 oz lime / Ginger beer to top
Build / mule mug or rocks

Modern favorites
Bright, fresh, easy
Paloma
2 oz tequila / Pinch of salt / Grapefruit soda / Lime
Build / highball

Aperol Spritz
3 oz prosecco / 2 oz Aperol / Splash of soda
Build / wine glass

Espresso Martini
2 oz vodka / 1 oz coffee liqueur / 1 oz espresso / 1/2 oz simple
Shake / coupe / 3 beans

Craft classics
Spirit-forward icons
Old Fashioned
2 oz bourbon or rye / 1/4 oz syrup or sugar cube / 2 dashes bitters
Build / rocks / orange peel

Manhattan
2 oz rye / 1 oz sweet vermouth / 2 dashes bitters
Stir / up / cherry

Negroni
1 oz gin / 1 oz Campari / 1 oz sweet vermouth
Stir / rocks / orange peel

Excessive moderns that still drink clean.
Paper Plane
1 oz bourbon / 1 oz Aperol / 1 oz Amaro Nonino / 1 oz lemon
Shake / coupe

Espresso Negroni
1 oz gin / 1 oz Campari / 1 oz sweet vermouth / 1 oz chilled espresso
Stir / rocks

Naked & Famous
3/4 oz mezcal / 3/4 oz yellow Chartreuse / 3/4 oz Aperol / 3/4 oz lime
Shake / coupe

Short terms, quick ratios, and clean technique.
Mixing terms
- Build— Make directly in the serving glass.
- Shake— Shake hard with ice.
- Stir— Stir gently with ice.
- Up— Chilled, strained, no ice.
- Neat— Room temperature, no ice.
- Rocks— Served over ice.
- Double strain— Hawthorne + fine strainer.
- Dry shake— Shake without ice first.
Bar lingo
- 86'd— Out of stock.
- Call— Specific brand requested.
- Well— House liquor.
- Back— Non-alcoholic chaser.
- Bitters— Concentrated flavoring, used by the dash.
Glassware + measures
- Highball— Tall glass for long drinks.
- Rocks— Short, heavy-bottomed glass.
- Coupe— Stemmed cocktail glass.
- 1 oz— 30 mL
- 1 tbsp— 15 mL
- 1 tsp— 5 mL
- Standard pour— 1.5-2 oz (house-dependent)
Ratios + technique
Sour
2 spirit + 1 citrus + 1 sweet
Margarita, Daiquiri, Whiskey Sour, Gimlet
Highball
1 spirit + long mixer, built over ice
Vodka Soda, Gin & Tonic, Paloma
Spirit-forward
2 spirit + 1 vermouth, stirred, up
Martini, Manhattan
Negroni
1 spirit + 1 bitter + 1 sweet vermouth, stirred, rocks
Spritz
3 sparkling wine + 2 aperitivo + 1 splash soda
- Ice first, then spirits.
- Shake citrus, dairy, or egg.
- Stir spirit-forward drinks.
- Double strain for clean texture.
Desert-mystic picks for hosting.
Prickly Pear Margarita
2 oz tequila / 3/4 oz triple sec / 3/4 oz lime / 1/2 oz prickly pear syrup
Shake / rocks / optional salt rim

Smoky Mezcal Paloma
1 1/2 oz mezcal / 1/2 oz lime / Pinch of salt / Grapefruit soda to top
Build / highball

Date Old Fashioned
2 oz bourbon or rye / 1/3 oz date syrup / 2 dashes bitters
Build / rocks / orange peel

Desert Citrus Spritz
2 1/2 oz prosecco / 1 1/2 oz aperitivo / 1/2 oz grapefruit / Splash soda
Build / wine glass

Batch for 4 (party mode)
- Multiply each spec by 4 and chill the base in a pitcher.
- Add citrus right before serving; add soda in the glass so it stays lively.
- Add dilution for shaken drinks: 15-20% water (Margarita x4: 200 mL tequila + 80 mL triple sec + 60 mL lime + 80-100 mL water).
- Stirred batch example (Negroni x4): 120 mL gin + 120 mL Campari + 120 mL sweet vermouth; stir on ice, strain to rocks.
Pacing + consent
- Offer water between rounds and keep snacks nearby.
- Pause if anyone feels off; consent includes capacity.
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